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As a former client of SAGE Project in San Francisco, I cannot express enough how instrumental SAGE was in transforming my life. When I was first introduced to SAGE, I was drug addicted, living on the streets and prostituting myself to survive. Obviously, that lifestyle was very damaging and involved horrific amounts of violence and degradation. I felt completely isolated from society and saw no hope or future for myself. I came into contact with SAGE through the San Francisco County Jail system. Looking back, I can truly say that it was my introduction to SAGE which saved my life. Due to my involvement in prostitution, all threads of self-esteem, self-worth, and self-respect as a woman were completely destroyed. Prostitution is a lifestyle that forces one to be at the mercy of those who want to use and abuse other human beings. The myth of the loving, fatherly-figure pimp is a complete fabrication, as is the myth of the kind and caring ‘customer.’ There may be a few ‘lonely men’ who would never dream of harming someone, but the majority of people pursuing prostitutes do so specifically for the purpose of being able to physically, psychologically and sexually control someone. That is what prostitution as an institution is based on and the same reason many people compare it with slavery. When I became involved with SAGE, they helped me to rediscover my worth as a human being. They helped me to hope, dream and plan for a future for myself. They guided me through the process of recovery and learning how to become self-sufficient in a way that did not force me to compromise my values. SAGE taught me how to become empowered, speak my voice and fight for opportunity in life. These opportunities that I speak of included securing a safe place to lay my head at night, participating in employment skill training so I could enter the San Francisco job market, and receiving unconditional caring, support and guidance throughout the entire process. These may sound like qualities that most people already possess, but like the other women and girls who I knew who were involved in prostitution, these never existed for me. When you look at me today, you could never imagine that I was once sleeping on the streets, meeting up with ‘customers’ behind dumpsters, and doing everything in my power to avoid accepting my reality. I appear as the typical college student who is secure, confident and full of hope and promise for the future. I appear this way because that is who I am. Today I am very confident in my strengths and abilities, very secure in my identity as an empowered woman, and extremely driven to seek out a better future for myself and the community in which I live. These are traits I was taught by SAGE. These are opportunities that should be made available to all who want them. There are hundreds of women like me in San Francisco. You don’t recognize us because we don’t walk around with a sign saying “I’m a former prostitute.” We have carved out new identities for ourselves. We have learned how to be healthy, happy human beings. We are working hard to make this world a little better for ourselves and the next generation. Please understand how important it is that all SAGE services remain available for others like me. Whether you recognize us or not, we exist. Whether you see it or not, there is true potential there if you encourage it to blossom. |
Opponents of Prop K
Groups Voting NO on Prop K
African American Democratic Club
Alice B. Toklas LGBT Democratic Club
Asian Pacific Democratic Club
Asian Week
Bay Area Reporter
Black Women Organized for Political Action
Chinese American Democratic Club
City Democratic Club
Coalition Against Trafficking in Women
Coalition for SF Neighborhoods
Community Leadership Alliance
Democratic Women's Forum
District 11 Democratic Club
ECPAT-USA
Irish American Democratic Club
Not for Sale
Raoul Wallenberg Democratic Club
The San Francisco Chronicle
San Francisco Examiner
San Francisco Labor Council
San Francisco Women’s Political Caucus
The Senior Action Network
SPUR (San Francisco Planning & Urban Research)
Soroptimist International of El Cerrito
Students & Artists Fighting to End Human Slavery
Tenant Associations Coalition PAC
The following individuals oppose San Francisco Proposition K
San Francisco Elected Officials
District Attorney Kamala Harris
Mayor Gavin Newsom
Supervisor Michela Alioto-Pier, District 2
Supervisor Carmen Chu, District 4
Supervisor Sean Elsbernd, District 7
Supervisor Bevan Dufty, District 8
Supervisor Sophie Maxwell, District 10
Dr. Natalie Berg, Trustee SF Community College Board
Bay Area Elected Officials
Assemblywoman Loni Hancock, District 14
Berkeley City Councilmember Linda Maio, District 1
Berkeley City Councilmember Darryl Moore, District 2
Candidates Endorse No on K
Barry Hermanson
Candidate for US Congress, District 8
Dana Walsh
Candidate for US Congress, District 8
Conchita Applegate
CA Assembly Candidate, District 12
Harmeet Dhillion
CA Assembly Candidate, District 13
Nancy Skinner
CA Assembly Candidate District 14
Sue Lee
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 1
Alicia Wang
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 1
Joe Alioto, Jr.
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 3
Claudine Cheng
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 3
David Chiu
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 3
Mike De Nunzio
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 3
Lynn Jefferson
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 3
Ron Dudum
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 4
Owen O'Donnell
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 5
Eva Royale
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 9
John Avalos
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 11
Ahsha Safaí
SF Supervisorial Candidate, District 11
Steve Ngo
Candidate for SF Community College Board
Marigrace Cohen
Candidate for SF Board of Education
Janyry Mak
Candidate for SF Board of Education
Rachel Norton
Candidate for SF Board of Education
Community Leaders (Partial List)
Michael Antonini
Citizens for a Better San Francisco
Andrea Bass
Elizabeth F. Boardman
Writer & Peace Activist
Alicia Boccellari, Ph.D.
Trauma Recovery Center, UCSF
Christopher L. Bowman
VC - Precinct Operations
Francine Braae, Co-Interim Executive Director
SAGE Project
Janet Campbell
VC-Special Events
Frank Cannata, VP
MPNA
Marybeth Carter
former Executive Director, California Coalition Against Sexual Assault (CALCASA) and Past President, National Alliance to End Sexual Violence (NAESV)
Wendy Collins,
Mission Merchants Association
Sharon W. Cooper, MD FAAP
Consultant, National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, University of North Carolina Chapel Hill School of Medicine
Ms. Libby Denebeim
Former President of San Francisco School Board
Doreen Der-McLeod
Cameron House
Jennifer Dinh
Carol Dippel, President
Soroptimist International of El Cerrito
Tania Docarmo, U.S. Office Coordinator
Chab Dai Coalition
Catherine Dodd, Ph.D., RN
Former director of NOW
Judith L. Doherty
Retired Executive
Matthew R. Dorozenski, Advisory Board Member
The Barnaba Institute and Founding Member, End Internet Trafficking Coalition
Rachel Durchslag, Director
Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation
Barbara B. Elliott, BSN, RN
Nursing Educator
Howard Epstein, Chairman
Walter Armer, VC Political Affairs
Melissa Farley, Ph.D. & Director
Prostitution Research & Education, San Francisco
Laurie Fields, Ph.D.
Dept. of Psychiatry UCSF
Theresa L. Flores, LSW, MSW
American Survivor of Human Trafficking, Author & Speaker
Norman Fong
Chinatown Community Development Corporation
Kenneth Franzblau, Trafficking Campaign Director
Equality Now
Annie Fukushima, Ph.D. Candidate
Ethnic Studies & Designated Emphasis in Women, Gender & Sexuality UC Berkeley
Roma Guy, MSW
Former Health Commissioner City County SF
Barry Hermanson
Green for Congress
Aileen Hernandez
Chair Emerita, California Women's Agenda
Reverend Glenda Hope, Executive Director
San Francisco Network Ministries
Norma Hotaling, Executive Director
SAGE Project
Donna M. Hughes, Ph.D
Professor & Carlson Endowed Chair Women's Studies Program, University of Rhode Island
Eriko Ikehara
B. Julie Johnson, Ph.D., MPH
Prostitution Survivor, Independent Scholar
Yasmin Kaderali
Students & Artists Fighting to End Human Slavery
Peter Keane
Dean Emeritus and Professor of Law Golden Gate University School of Law
Amelia W. Korangy, Development and Outreach Officer
FAIR Fund, Inc
Leo Lacayo
Alexis Taylor Litos, Executive Director
The Barnaba Institute
Kathy Lipscomb
Retired, SEIU UHCW-W
Pamela D. LoPinto
San Franciscans United for Safety for Women, Safety for Neighborhoods
Heidi Machen, Attorney
Fmr. SF Dept Head
Kathy Maskell, U.S. Advocacy Director
Love146
Catharine A. MacKinnon, J.D., Ph.D.
Robin Morgan
Rosario Navarrette, Associate Director,
30th Street Senior Center
Maritza Penagos, MSW MSPH
HIV Services Activist
Edward Poole
Citizens for a Better San Francisco
Greg Rohrbough, Executive Director
Justice Like Lightning
Diana E. H. Russell, Ph.D.
Emerita Professor of Sociology at Mills College, Co-founder of Women Against Sexual Slavery, Berkeley
Donna Sabella, M.Ed., MSN, Ph.D. , RN
Program Director, Dawn's Place, Philadelphia, PA and Director, Project Phoenix, West Chester, PA
Marie De Santis, Executive Director Women’s Justice Center
Santa Rosa, CA
Aida F. Santos
women's development, education, productivity & research organization (wedpro), inc, Philippines
Jen Sheehan, Outreach Director
The Barnaba Institute
Mimi Silbert, Ph.D., President and CEO
Delancey Street Foundation
Ann Singer
Jewish Coalition to End Human Trafficking
Gloria Steinem
Karen Stauss, Managing Attorney and Policy Counsel
Polaris Project
Jordanna Thigpen, Executive Director
San Francisco Taxi Commission
Dawn Trennert
President, Middle Polk Neighborhood Assoc.
Allen Wilson
American Civil Liberties Union
Ann Winslow, Assoc Director
SF Network Ministries
Susie Wong, Former Pres.,
Wu Yee Children's Service
Titles listed for identification purposes only.
10/30/08